I used to play Cafeland much more than I do now. I have been discouraged by the length of time it takes to answer requests. Many of us Accept & Send everything. Would you consider adding an Accept & Send All option to our requests mailbox, please? It would greatly speed up answering requests without causing a major issue with your servers..
By setting it up like Accept All and Help All buttons, players would still have the option of not Accepting & Sending All if they are worried about the food gift limit.
When I visit friend's cafe its having me send gift request when they are already neighbors.